what happened to men now a days? :(

i didnt sleep the whole night yesterday.. was chatting to this girl (my sils friend).. shes such a nice girl masha Allah! n shes having these probs.. thanx to her mil :(
her mil was visiting them..n i duno wat happened to her.. her mil got jealous of her and started telling her son stuff.. and in return he asked her to leave the house :( he said she should go to her cousins house for a few days n come back later.. as she doenst know any1 else there.. her family is in pak.. so she had to go to her cousins house.. n when she went there..he told her to go back to pak :( and that he is going to take revenge from her because she made his mother sad!?!?!?!?
uff wats wrong with men now a days???
when she told him that she cant forget him and its impossible for her to live w/o him.. he said just go back and u'll forgive me in a month or two!
why are men like that?
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this reminds me of the incident of mugheeth and barirah

the prophet saw interceded for one who was in love to reunite him with the woman he was in love with, to remarry him but she rejected. when the prophet (saw) saw Mugheeth walking behind her, his tears pouring down wetting his beard. the prophet saw said to her: "would u not go back to him?"
she asked, " o prophet (saw) are u commanding me to do so?"
he answered: "no, i am only interceding (for him)."
so she said: " i have no need for him."
so the prophet said to his uncle: "o abbass! are u not amazed at the love of mugheeth for barirah, and her dislike for him?"
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where are such men now?!!