remembering the good times..

well this is my 2nd attempt to post a blog today :) i dont have gym on mondays. so i stayed at home for the whole day.. alone.
yeah omer was busy with some important house chores :| checking out a new car, dropping a cousin, bringing auntys meds etc etc..
anyway, i am addicted to LOST. we watched 2 seasons in 3 days i think. hehe
we went to get the third season but as its still running on the tv the master print wasnt available. so omer suggested to wait for a few more weeks! i can't wait :p
i like Sun a lot. she's a caring wife. sawyers smile is too cute! and john is a nice person BUT its because of his total commitment to his profession that he ended up getting a divorce. he should have thought about his wife as well.
anyway.. locke rocks! hes the cool dude :D
lets see what happens in the next season!
ok arabic word of the day:

(أصلع) – aSla’, noun

Meanings

1. Bald

and now one picture!
the first pic i took from my mobile :D it was a lovelyy day! we went to wah garden! it looked beautiful. it was foggy :D the water so clear that we could see the fish swimming in it clearly :D Masha Allah :D :D

ah!

alrite.. the weather is awesome today! :D alhamdulillah
just went to track 3.. my hubby did hiking and i enjoyed :p oh i haven't been writing much.. i had an accident.. broke the windscreen through my forehead.. thank god it wasn't that serious. the scars are still there though.. been a month almost.. but they are fading. :) alhamdulillah
i miss my parents. i miss my mother. mothers should b loving. they should express their love openly. in my opinion everybody should do masters in eng lit :p (as a regular student). communication prob destroy relationships :| that was always a main theme in almost all the texts.
anyway... i like Arabic word a day email! i think i should post it everyday here so that we can all learn together :D I'm posting todays word of the day..

(هناك) – huna_ka, noun

Meanings

1. there

ok fatee went to hunza and sent me lots of pics.. yes i am so jealous of her :p lol! (i miss her a lot :( ) i am gona paste one of the pics. i wana go there right now! :|

lahore

ok so i was in lahore for the past few days..it was so much fun sitting together.. talking.. eating and watching tv together :) got so much love there.. i miss them so much :/
but when i was in lahore.. i noticed one thing.. i really missed my husband :/
im so lucky to have a husband like him.. alhamdulillah.. i laugh at myself though.. for not enjoying the first few months of our marriage :p
now.. i cant think of a life w.o him! anyway.. :p
we went to murree yesterday and it was snowing heavily!! didnt see anything like that before!! had a lot of fun alhamdulillah :))
then my abu ji called me and told me that my 1 yr old nephew (farzan) was calling my name again n again! he was looking for me everywhere in the house :s
i miss them a lot :| i got so many gifts from them..i got this really cool minipimer! i cant wait to try it :)

missing my parents

:(
i miss abu n ami so much. abu gave me all the things i ever wished for. i remember when i just mentioned it to ami that the pc i was using is too old.. i cant work properly on it.. the next day when i came back home from college.. abu brought me a new pc :(
oh god.. i love him so much. he tried his best to give us every thing we ever wished for. he is so sick now .. i wish i could do something to help him. i wish i could do sumthing to ease his pain. but i can only make dua.:(
my ami jaan.. she cant see me in pain :/ i remember i used to stay awake all night when i had flu. ami used to take care of me :( i love her so much!
shes such a softie!

ok back!

hmm its been ages since i posted anything here! have been so busy! well as i have resigned now.. i will have lots of time to blog :p insha Allah!
im gona join a gym soon! i wanted to join it today BUT i am sick! so i'll have to wait for a few more days :s
so omer introduced me to this sis.. i saw her on omers cousins wedding.. she was the only girl in abaya (other than me) so i remembered her.. didnt remember any of her siblings though :p shes nice masha Allah! and she gave me lots of tips!! we dont have any good gyms here :s i miss "shapes" in lahore :/
anyway lets see what happens!!!!
anyway.. i was reading that surah fatiha is a cure for all ailments! and that if we recite surah fatiha with a firm belief it cures all diseases (spiritual or wordly) eternal or internal!! there is a hadith which said if we recite surah fatiha and surah ikhlas before going to sleep.. we will be safe from all dangers except death! :)
alrite panadol cf is taking over me... i cant think anymore :p
salam!

dedicated to batool fatima!!!

i was just telling omer about batool yesterday.. that a friend of mine went to lebanon and that she works for AAJ. i told him that ive never met her in real life. today, at 9 am when i was being lazy and didnt feel like getting out of the bed.. omer told me that shes on tv :) i jumped out of the bed to see her.. im soooooooo proud of her!! i always wanted to do sumthing like that.. too bad im not capable of it. i wanted to b a journalist.. (thats why i took journalism in BA :p)
when i was doing my masters..i thought that i'll work with a ngo! but it didnt happen.
i just dont know who to contact? or how am i going to help them! but in my heart i have this desire of doing something for the people. i wish i could do sumthing :/
thats why i respect ppl who are in this profession! not for fame.. not for money.. but to serve humanity! i love u batool :) cant wait to read about Qana! (yes! shes in qana right now!)

story of the day (goat's head)
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a sahabi received a goat's head as a present. he thought of a neighbour who had a larger family and was in greater need of it than himself. so he presented the head to him. this brother sent the goats head to yet another person whom he considered even more deserving than himself. the goat head is thus said to have change hands no less than SEVEN times. at last it came back to the original person from whom the circulation had started. :)

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this story makes me wonder how the sahaba used to spend their lives.. in poverty and yet they were selfless.
we have all the luxuries and still we are running after money? i know many ppl who are very rich and still they dont even give zaqaat :( may Allah guide us all.. aameen!
ramadan is coming.. i hope we'll give as much zakaat as we can :)aameen [nothing wrong in overpayment of zakaat!] (remember the story of ubay ibn kab when he was collecting zakat? :))

once again! love u batool!!! :))

what happened to men now a days? :(

i didnt sleep the whole night yesterday.. was chatting to this girl (my sils friend).. shes such a nice girl masha Allah! n shes having these probs.. thanx to her mil :(
her mil was visiting them..n i duno wat happened to her.. her mil got jealous of her and started telling her son stuff.. and in return he asked her to leave the house :( he said she should go to her cousins house for a few days n come back later.. as she doenst know any1 else there.. her family is in pak.. so she had to go to her cousins house.. n when she went there..he told her to go back to pak :( and that he is going to take revenge from her because she made his mother sad!?!?!?!?
uff wats wrong with men now a days???
when she told him that she cant forget him and its impossible for her to live w/o him.. he said just go back and u'll forgive me in a month or two!
why are men like that?
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this reminds me of the incident of mugheeth and barirah

the prophet saw interceded for one who was in love to reunite him with the woman he was in love with, to remarry him but she rejected. when the prophet (saw) saw Mugheeth walking behind her, his tears pouring down wetting his beard. the prophet saw said to her: "would u not go back to him?"
she asked, " o prophet (saw) are u commanding me to do so?"
he answered: "no, i am only interceding (for him)."
so she said: " i have no need for him."
so the prophet said to his uncle: "o abbass! are u not amazed at the love of mugheeth for barirah, and her dislike for him?"
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where are such men now?!!